The truth

Necessary for understanding this post:

https://caamib.wordpress.com/the-story-of-your-incel-an-inconvenient-truth/

https://caamib.wordpress.com/2014/02/26/darkness-2/

https://caamib.wordpress.com/2015/01/09/paradox-of-incel-in-modern-society/

There was this one poster on the Love-shy forums who had a signature denoting that he ignores what people say but likes to watch what these same people do. At the time it seemed like a sort of a cliche, but lately I’ve been thinking about that sentence more and more, to the point of even developing a slight obsession.

It’s just that it applies so much to everything I see around me, including online spaces. So, what can be defined as a dissonance between the two in online spaces, where you only have words? What are the acts here?

Well, obviously, more words, in a specific context.

It is by now clear that liberals are an utterly insane bunch suffering from cognitive dissonance of the highest ranking. This is nothing new, and I’m more and more inclined to see a liberal as simply a chameleon to whatever’s popular.

So, how do liberals show that they don’t do what they say in writing? It’s usually by doing what they usually do – making asses out of themselves. I’ve seen these crazies write entire screeds of lies about how much I want nothing but sex, and how there are many men who want more (it’s just that I am not one of them for some bizzare reason they never explain, nor could they ever), just to finish by revealing their true colors and saying that all men with my problems just want sex.

This would be a very simple example of not doing what you’re indoctrinated to say and then finally succumbing to your own stupidity, just to reveal your true colors.

This would even be hilarious in some kind of a different world if the entire current world isn’t based on ramblings by these lunatics.

So, what is the truth ?

Why am I actually incel, why are so many other men this and why are so many good men incel?

The truth is in the word OBSOLESCENCE.

If you living in the Western feminist countries you were probably told lies about women wanting respect, empowerment and good men.

All of this is a lie.

Idea of relationships with them? Obsolete.

The idea of these women wanting good, intelligent, hardworking men? Obsolete.

Idea of these women even caring about consent to sex? Obsolete.

Liberals might not be aware of this consciously, since they are demented, but subconsciously they know this extremely well. Things like their hysterical struggle to demonize “nice guys” (ie, boring men following a model they want all men to follow) ?  Their stupid claims that no woman wants a jobless man when basic facts of reality deny this, while also stating that just being employed can’t and shouldn’t be enough (it had been for our grandfathers, and they weren’t “entitled” to anything, it’s just what got women)? Their insane attempts to vilify just anything a guy who has filled the “criteria” does, all in desperate attempts to find just one flaw that they can blame for anything, while men with 1000 flaws are getting sluts ?

This and many other hypocritical, imbecilic things they say are just their incredibly stupid and vile attempts to dislodge the obvious and very grim issue, which is that nothing that the mainstream society says is true seems to work in any way and that the only reason why somebody still believes these lies is because they’re stupid enough to be indoctrinated by them.

If you’re sane and reading this you know and those sane people benefiting from the current system know it just as well – it’s just that they have no interest in this being changed.

From the age of 12 I was told fairy tales about respecting women, not harassing women, not beating women, not raping women, fairy tales about consent, relationships and other things that no longer existed.

Some of those believing this were simply too dull to see that the world has changed, even if they did believe in some of the traits that made the old system feasible.

Many were, however, actively working to demolish the crux of society, a patriarchal system, and just simply wanted to believe that the remnants of the system they hated and helped destroy would still exist, simply because they liked some parts of it and believed that they can survive with their base being destroyed.

It was, of course, a silly dream.

The reality was that everything of the old collapsed, and virtually millions of young men were left to deal with a new system they did not understand while being told that parts of old system that was destroyed existed.

For this to be done all that had to be done was to reshuffle the history a bit.

1. Natural female attraction to providers in societies where they were sought after was now branded as attraction to seducer males that always existed because… ummm, it exists now? This was done to hide the fact that in the past women hated scumbags and liked “nerdy” men.

2. Rape was made out to be a crime that revolved around whims like women’s consent. This was done to hide the fact that in the past it had been in a property crime against a woman’s father or a husband  or a chaste woman and that this made women safer, as owners want to take care of their things and rape was seen as a grave crime.

3. All of this bullshit was coated in thick, heavy layers of false historical narrative about poor oppressed women and their masters who lay around all day burping and farting.

Nr. 1 resulted in millions of good men being told that they’re wrong, no matter what they do, and that the problem will always be them. It doesn’t matter if they do good or bad, they are always the problem.

Nr. 2. resulted in a natural declining interest for new victims of rape, who were often sluts and intensely unlikable public goods, and attempts to mitigate this decline by Slut Walks and other travesties.

Consequences of nr. 3 could be summed up as general ignorance of any social history and just another step further to feralization of humanity.

It is hilarious how the rape hysteria in the West is ever increasing as this once serious crime is becoming more and more an obvious joke. Every slightest form of perceived fraud or coercion is now rape, yet dumb jocks and football players are raping at will.

The facts are that consent is now a criminal act in the West, since men who get women are all dumb thugs who never ask for it. Thus, women see this works and reject men with other approaches.

Consent is a criminal act in the West.

A date is a criminal act in the West.

Wanting a relationship is a criminal act in the West.

Any humane treatment of women is a criminal act in the West.

That’s what feminism and liberalism brought us. Nothing but people devolving into beasts, under the guise of some extreme sensitivity and political correctness.

If you want to “date” a modern Western slut every move you do is immediately wrong. You can’t date them.

However, myself and men like me were told none of that.  We’ve been told a paradigm that last existed decades ago.

We’ve been told that we could play Skyrim (have the lives our ancestors did) using Commodore 64 (old, outdated methods and ways).

So, what happened?

Many of us failed at the first step and never got any experience at all.

From a today’s perspective I’d say these were the luckier ones.

What many of us who did have some slight attractive features, like good looks, had was much worse. We’ve been subjected to playing a game we could never, ever, ever win. Going from one trauma to another, all because we were told that the game is winnable.

Of course, the game was never winnable at all. In order for it to be winnable we’d have to have no expectation but sex and act in a way we never could have. We were supposed to be somebody else to successfully exist in this time. When we weren’t able to do that we were called failures and said we should have acted exactly the way we did in fact act. When we said it’s bs we were called entitled and sent to be slave labor, expected to never have anything but pay taxes.

I now see how obvious it was that just the mere hints of acting like an aloof asshole gained significant results. This is seen in examples like

– the fact that the infamous TFO was even more attracted to me after I told her I met another girl at about the same time and even kissed her

– that the fact that I simply chose to ignore my future first gf for 3 full months, not seeing any point in hanging out with her as I didn’t initially find her attractive and was too shy anyway, made her create plans to stalk me and send me messages openly offering a relationship

-the fact that my second gf wanted to meet me irl only after I told her I had sex with another woman

– the fact that merely putting a picture of my second gf on this blog, after her admitted attempted torture of me, made her immediately consent to sex and want a relationship after this

– that coercing a certain woman into sex in 2013 was much more successful than initially checking if we’re compatible for a potential relationship, which turned out to be laughable, since the girl was a ditzy sluts incapable of dating anybody, wrecking marriages at the age of 18. But coercing her made her respect me more and we even shared laughs after it happened.

I failed to interpret this the way it was meant to be interpreted – that even the whiff of savage behavior is enough to create some attraction, but that this attraction can never result in any relationships, since modern Western women are incapable of them.

I was burnt by trying to enter relationships with animals who were never meant to be in a relationship anyway. Their lives prove it extremely well, as both of my ex-gfs wrecked all of their subsequent “relationships” as well.

A way out would have been to teach me to abuse and mutilate women at the ages of 13-14, just to get some sexual experience, and to be prepared to leave the West at around 20 at the latest. It is dead, with no future at all. This somewhat more violent approach than seducers have would be necessitated by the fact that I lacked any seduction skills, not being an omega monster.

Yet, none of this happened. Instead many people are actually shocked about these revelations I had to make myself, at enormous costs, and way, way too late.

There was never any chance of me having a girlfriend here. Every move I’d make was immediately wrong, as the game had been rigged before I started growing teeth.

And I was hated, hated to the max for simply expressing my pain and refusing to fund the feminist system which destroyed any sanity. I was predestined for jail, where all who oppose the system and women are disgusted with go. Some barbaric measures postponed this, but they didn’t make me feel better. My type was meant to be a father and a husband in a world where such men are seen as scum.

So what does this leave somebody like me with at this late hour? A broken man who doesn’t even try to go on dates, seeing them as criminal acts in the eyes of modern Western women. A man who thinks and acts like an animal, because he rightly sees the world as feral.

13 thoughts on “The truth

  1. A question unrelated to your post if you don’t mind. Have you ever had a WordPress post on your blog disappear i.e you do a post and then it just disappears? I just had that happen and was wondering if it is some sort of censorship or some kind of glitch. I would be interested to find out. if it has happened to others.

        • Yeah, almost certainly a glitch. No post of mine had ever been censored so yeah. Do you perchance have the post in your Drafts? Probably not but worth the try.

          • I have a version of it written on my computer. I thought you would be the right person to ask as I thought that if anyone was likely to be censored then it would be you. I also noticed that it is possible to report a post as “abusive” and I don’t know what happens if someone reports a post as such.

              • you mentioned at the beginning of this article, the “love shy” forums and this raised an interesting point I wanna get off my chest, we need to stop using that term. It plays into this myth that it’s “all about confidence,” (which no sensible incel is dumb enough to believe those platitudes). It’s not about being “shy” because the vast majority of us aren’t shy, and even many of the ones who are, didn’t start out like that until after the first 12000 rejections. Call it TFL, call it incel, call it forever alone, perpetual celibacy, whatever, but we gotta stop using this term “love shy.”

                • Well, in all honesty, most incels don’t use that term for their problems. LS forums is traditionally called that because it used to deal with LS as described by Gilmartin back in 2003 when it opened but it is no longer that relevant. Besides, anybody with some brains and interest would read my definitions/investigate and see what the terms are about and what they describe.

  2. Here is a helpful and hopefully comforting thought for you, caamib.

    One of the problems that we “loser” guys have in the dating world is that we tend to secretly value women almost like an unobtainable trophy. Since we were taught from day 1 to respect women, we have always treated them “nicely” growing up. There is nothing inherently wrong with this. The problem comes at some point when enough time has passed and we begin to question why people around us are getting girlfriends and sex and we are not. It begins to appear like there is something wrong with us. After all, we are good smart people with good intentions,so what gives ? Should not we also be able to enjoy life to its fullest ?

    This begins to cause low self esteem as we start to feel like we are inadequate somehow, like we are defective in some way (even if we are not in reality). And due to this low self esteem, we start to view girls more like prizes that other guys get but not us. We get depressed, confused, maybe even bitter and angry. And so we try to “find” a girl suitable for us, to hunt for a girl to prove that we are not inadequate. By doing this we are putting the girls on a pedestal, we are viewing them as nearly unattainable trophies. In many cases we will become so determined to finally get the prize by attracting a girl, that we actually become disconnected from reality right in front of us. Even if a girl does genuinely like us, we are so focused on pushing our agenda of trying to get her to like us that we may fail to see her real interest and end up pushing her away through our behavior. She will sense that we have some kind of problem(s) and will feel repelled by us, no different than when a dirty homeless person on the street approaches you from a dark alley and you try to walk past him as quickly as possible. He is doing what he thinks is right, but you may feel threatened and repulsed by him and maybe even fear for your safety.

    When we elevate womens value to unreasonably high levels, it will only worsen our problem. The solution actually comes where we least expect it, by actually lowering our perceived value of girls to more reasonable levels. No, this does not mean we should lower our perceived value of them so much that we begin to sed them only as worthless garbage (some insecure guys overcompensate by doing this, and some girls do respond to these guys since many girls also have low self esteem about their looks)

    The right amount of value that we ought to assign to women is the amount that they are actually worth. How can we know what they are actually worth ? Well, it is not always easy. Looks can be deceiving. Everyone is human, but some people behave like civilized persons and others in society behave like animals or worse. Some very good looking women are downright mean, nasty, and cold hearted people. Unfortunately there are a lot of these women, and men too, and they do not deserve much attention or perceived value from us. With some good people though, we have to search a bit deeper to discover, and they may be worth a lot.

    Overall though, everyone is just members of society. They all have wants and needs, thoughts and emotions. Women, just like us guys, get up in the morning to take a poop and then eat breakfast.

    When we treat them more like regular people (similar to how their family treats them or our family treats us), they will sense that we are normal as well and they may wish to be around us more. And if we give them this opportunity to get to know us, they may discover that they like us. If they really like us, and we really like them, we may express our love for each other by having sex. Real sex ought to be an expression of love between people who genuinely like each other. This is more rare nowadays than one might otherwise assume.

    So in conclusion, the answer comes frim within us. How we see ourselves, and how we view and behave around people that are around us, is ultimately what matters. If we value women too high or too low, then we are bound to encounter problems in our life. The good news is that it is very easy to change our mindset.

    • Also i wish to underscore an important point in my prior post. People sometimes say that incel guys like us are miserable and lonely because we are misogynistic, that we just hate women and believe them to be inferior and we do not respect women at all. I used to believe they were wrong, because i know that i am not a bad person, I have always known that i am a good person and i was not raised to hate women. However, i believe something different nowadays.

      Nowadays, i believe that these people who accuse us of being misogynistic are partly correct, but not for the reasons they think we are. The truth is that, as mentioned previously, we suffer from low self esteem (for various reasons, including the fact that we remain incel). And this low self esteem causes us to see OURSELVES as inferior to women at a deep emotional level. We have in the past, and maybe still do, desperately desire companionship, so we often make proactive efforts to FIND a girlfriend. I believe nowadays that this actually undervalues women in general, because in a way it diminishes their value to little more than a commodity. We have stopped caring about individual girls and their uniqueness as people. All we really care about when we try to find a girlfriend, is that we find a girl who is good looking and genuinely interested in us and wants to be in a relationship with us and have sex, etc. That is actually somewhat demeaning to them in reality. They are worth more than that. It is not much different than if a girl says she just wants a guy to be her boyfriend, to buy her things, to do things for her, so she can look good in front of her friends. Most guys would probably pass at such an opportunity because it is not altogether genuine, and it seems the girl does not really care about the guy at all, she is just using him to boost her self esteem. Such is the case with us as well, the more we try the less we are perceived as sincere and true to ourselves. The solution is to focus more on ourselves, on improving our life, not to get a girlfriend but rather to make ourselves happy and comfortable.

      Now you may ask, what about the asshole guys who get all the women? Do not they disrespect women? The reality is that yes, they actually do disrespect women, but because they care so little about “finding” a girlfriend (since they think women are trash anyways), women do not FEEL like a worthless commodity like they do when they are pursued by us. So as a result of this general carelessness, asshole guys end up selfishly focusing more on themselves. They spend most of their time working out in the gym, partying, having fun, etc. So they are busy living an active life, which is seen by many as an attractive quality.

  3. Many things in the article are true.
    I believe that there are exagerations also but I think that you are in the few people that speak about some honest things.

  4. Hey I know this post is a few months old so apologies. Just wanted to say that although I haven’t experienced the exact same issues as you, I understand that the world is a crappy crappy place. Just wanted to offer my support to you.

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