I changed my mind on the doxxing – will only dox immoral, vile women

The idea to doxx all women who rejected me was wrong. These women at least gave a chance in real life. I had this idea after being angry for being rejected by a woman I met in real life. But that was a wrong approach. That woman or others who’d reject me in real life aren’t to blame for not being attracted to me.

But there are some women that are just vile, irresponsible scum.

I meet this girl online last week and on Friday we arrange to meet on Monday. She didn’t contact me entire weekend, despite all the messages I sent her, asking her to confirm the meeting we agreed on. She just wasn’t online. This meant that I didn’t even have her cell number before going to the arranged meeting. Still, I went there, only to freeze my ass for an hour while waiting for her. She never arrived.

I was finally able to contact her later during the night on that dating website and ask her what happened. She told me she had an exam on Monday and didn’t feel well during the weekend so she didn’t come online and simply forgot about the entire thing. She also said she’s sorry. I was like “Ok, I don’t mind, when can we see each other?”. I never got a response on the dating site and was blocked on Facebook about half an hour later.

I was freezing there for an hour just to experience her blocking me later. And, no, I’ve never told her about any of my views.

She deserves to have a defamatory blog made about her. She is scum.

28 thoughts on “I changed my mind on the doxxing – will only dox immoral, vile women

  1. My thought process is – this guy is an idiot and should learn more about incel. He should stop saying it’s only about sex or he’ll get banned next time, not just have his post edited.

    • Dmitry, I didn’t think you’re hostile. But I thought you’re stupid and lazy. This very blog you’re posting on has an entire page on this. You can easily find it. If you try and can’t find it I’ll guide you to it but don’t expect me to do everything for you.
      As for the other incels, I’m sure you’re right. Many incels are idiots, btw. My definition is the only correct one because it includes both relationships and sex, things that are complementary.

    • Yup, I’m trying to make him less lazy. He’s on my blog, it’s a matter of common courtesy that he finds this himself.

  2. Yes, you are right about that. That being said, while I was in two relationships previously only one of them was sexual and lasted for a month and half. It was also a long distance relationship. So my experience in that regard is pathetic.

  3. You’re an idiot. She’s not “vile, irresponsible scum”, she just figured out from “all the messages you sent her over the weekend” that you’re a desperate, insecure beta pussy and decided not to waste her time with you. You know who sends a woman multiple confirmation/reminder messages? A desperate, insecure beta pussy. You know who doesn’t get the hint after the FIRST message that doesn’t get a response? A desperate, insecure beta pussy. You know who waits an HOUR in the freezing cold for a woman to show up for a date? A desperate, insecure beta pussy. You know who STILL messages a woman after she blatantly and obviously blows him off for a date? A desperate, insecure beta pussy.

    She wasn’t being vile and irresponsible – she was too nice to come right out and tell you to fuck off, and was hoping you’d take the hint. You didn’t take the hint, because you don’t have the slightest clue of how to communicate with women – or other humans at all, for that matter (here’s a source for all the evidence that confirms that: http://thatincelblogger.wordpress.com), so you got ignored and blocked.

    If a woman ignores your message, move on – she’s either not interested or so forgetful that she’s not worth your time. If a woman hasn’t shown up 15 minutes after a date, she’s not showing up and you leave.

    Stop being such a desperate, insecure beta pussy, and maybe you’ll have better luck with women.

    • Like I told you on Reddit, I only sent 2-3 messages, asking her to confirm and give me her cell number. She didn’t see these messages until Monday.

      As for claiming that she was too “nice” to tell me the truth that’s not what being nice is about, dude.

      • Dmitry:
        “How you react after being treated like garbage is the measure of a man.”

        That would be true if it wasn’t how the majority of modern women treat men. In the past, men could shrug their shoulders and move on; today they’ll be treated like trash no matter what they do (unless the guy really IS trash, in which case women will flock to him begging him for sex and to have his baby).

  4. Dmitry:
    http://www.no-maam.blogspot.com/2004/05/bonecrcker-124-women-on-online-personal.html

    “Almost all of the women on online personals are just there to waste your time and have no intention of meeting anyone.”

    Meeting your wife on an online dating service is an extremely rare occurrence. Most dating sites won’t admit it; but the ratio of men to women is heavily weighted against men meeting anybody worthwhile. The fact that most women use these services to prey on and disrespect men, shows most deserve to be doxxed and exposed.

    • Meeting your wife on an online dating service is an extremely rare occurrence.

      I managed it. So did many of my friends. So I’d conclude from my own anecdata that it’s clearly not “extremely rare”, and Dmitry’s experience seems to be similar.

      But then I suspect we spend rather more time hanging out with people who are happily married than you do.

  5. I support your decision to dox her and would not even consider this to be defamation (because it isn’t). Just make your depiction truthful: post screenshots of all your messages back and forth on the dating site, along with your unanswered attempts to confirm your meetup. Then follow with her name, photo and the fact that she stood you up. While you are comfortable doxxing others, you presumably wouldn’t want to be doxxed yourself, so I suggest blacking out your own name/photo in these screenshots.

    • Listen to me. I will give you one more chance. You are free to call incel whatever you want to, call it “entitledwhitefaggotry” if you want but don’t fucking deny it. Incel has a definition. Some people argue on the definition. That’s fine. BUT ALL OF THESE DEFINITIONS DESCRIBE SOMETHING THAT IS POSSIBLE IN THE REAL WORLD. If I say “xasasdaphims means you drank over 3 bottles of water in one day” than xasadphims may not be a real problem but it is something that exists. So, if you’re gonna tell me that incel isn’t a thing I will ban you or anybody else who says that.

  6. Researcher Roy F. Baumeister mentions in his work that while 80 percent of women have historically managed to reproduce, only 40 percent of men have.

    With ancestral humans, there was rampant polygany, with the top men dominating the fertile years of multiple women, and a significant portion of men facing natural and insurmountable celibacy. Women went along with this arrangement because it meant getting the best genes for their children. Even an ugly woman would much rather share a man above her with other women rather than settling for low status man. Men would have to undertake dangerous activities to overcome their lowly sexual status — banding together and invading neighboring tribes and stealing their women, challenging alpha males in their group, etc…all of which results in male deaths, while the women continue to sit around getting impregnated by the winners.

    This arrangement went on for tens of thousands of years, heck, millions of years, considering all the creatures that preceded homo sapien sapien..

    Several thousand years ago though some elite men realized that they could make their societies more stable, and the men of those societies more willing to fight for that society rather than against it, if every man was guaranteed a mate. Thus, monogamy as a cultural norm was instituted with the idea of it benefiting the average man who would otherwise lose out to the top men who get multiple wives. Monogamy was a socialist divvying up of the good of female sexuality among the male population.

    Societies which practiced monogamy became more stable, as men’s energies were directed in other avenues beyond worrying about mating. The men weren’t as eager to fight against their own societies. Perhaps this is one reason why Western culture came to dominate the world: Monogamy allowed its men to work together rather than against each other.

    The West however decided to rock the boat with the Sexual Revolution. Since then, divorce has become more common. Marriage is delayed. Single motherhood is widespread and socially accepted. Slut shaming is frowned upon. Obviously, these things are incompatible with a strict monogamous culture.

    The consequence is that monogamous marriage no longer functions as a socialist divvying of female sexuality. Society, in some manners, has returned to the law of the jungle, in which, once again, top men dominate the fertile years of multiple women.

    For, consider the case of one 35 year old man today marrying a 28 year old woman he has known for five months. But prior to that marriage, in fact, going back to his years as a high school sophomore, he’s never been without a girlfriend around his age for more than a few months. Whether the number of girlfriend’s he’s had is two or 15, it’s clear that he’s consuming more than one woman’s prime years. The consequence is that other men lose out.

    Thus, the amount of sex had by the average man has remained the same since the Sexual Revolution, but the variance has increased.

    Videogames and pornography have the cultural function of pacifying the male sexual loser population.

    • Men were not necessarily GUARANTEED a woman, but societies used to be organized (and still are, in many traditional ones) in such a way as to ensure as close to a 1 to 1 mating ratio as possible, the female partner usually being in her prime years of female beauty (younger than 25.) This was done through slut shaming women and pressuring top males to marry. After the Sexual Revolution, there were a variety of changes that have led to the current sexual landscape in which top males dominate the fertile years of multiple women, with the result that many males find themselves to be incel. These changes were:

      -Women were given permission to sleep around as much possible.
      -Any man who could sleep with as many women as possible was given permission to do so. This has meant that all those women sleeping around (a very large number, perhaps 60% of all young women) were sleeping with with all those men who could sleep around (a minority of men, perhaps 20%). Sex Hoarding is a reality.
      -The traditional advantages that so called “beta” males had (in the United States anyway) in terms of being providers was undone by the welfare state in various ways: single mothers who don’t have have jobs are given free housing, free medical care for her and her children, food stamps, etc, things that would have otherwise come from a husband. Because of feminism, married women also earned a right to a husband’s resources (alimony, child support, various other wealth transfers) even after divorcing that husband. All of this has undone the “provider” role of males, perhaps the main advantage that non-alpha/elite males had.

      Female fertility/beauty is quite limited to, at most, 20 years of a woman’s life, but men of various ages are competing for women in that 20 year span. When men divorce and remarry, their second wives tend to be younger, and obviously such a man would be consuming more than one woman’s prime years. There are many more examples of the hoarding of women’s prime years I could come up with.

      Let me quote you here: “Men don’t “consume” women’s prime years. If a woman wants to waste her twenties hitting the club and choking down penicillin then that is her volition, but many do not. Many want to meet a man with the purpose of finding their future husband and starting a new life with him. ”

      In modern society, many women end up wising up and become eager to marry only after wasting their 20s riding the alpha cock-carousel. It suddenly dawns on them that they must marry soon before they turn 30 if they’re going to have the number of children they want, and they also feel pressured to marry at this time because of their rapidly fading looks. Such women who do this were, typically, being “hoarded” by alpha/elite males in their 20s and they end up settling to marry the sort of man they wouldn’t let fuck them in their 20s.

      Remember that the AVERAGE amount of sex had by the average man has remained the same since the sexual revolution but the VARIANCE has increased, meaning more at the bottom and more at the top.

  7. Eric,

    You’re basically the same as GGG, only he’s willing to admit how lonely he is while you hide behind a wall of false arrogance and hostility. You see yourself as far superior to women, but I’m sure it tears you up inside that you’ll never be able to look at one and know that there’s nowhere on earth she’d rather be than in your bed. You’ll never see her eyes light up as you bring her to orgasm and she cries out your name, both of you delirious with pleasure. And you’ll never know what it’s like to have someone truly care about you. So keep pretending like you’re better off alone. GGG is brave enough to reveal his pain and frustration to us. You’re a coward, so that’s something you’d never do. But it’s plainly obvious that at some point, you cared for a woman who in turn thought you were a loser and you vowed revenge on all womankind. I’m sure this post will probably get edited or removed, but contrasting GGG’s total honesty with your lame schtick is funny to be. You impotent nerd.

    • TV:
      http://www.no-maam.blogspot.com/2009/02/bonecrker-3-shaming-language.html

      Code Blue and Code Yellow.

      Actually there isn’t the difference between GGGF and myself that your hyperbole tries to make out. I’ve never said I’m never lonely or it’s better to be alone. The two of us represent the double-mind men are in today: caught between the living death of INCEL and the earthly hell of a modern relationship. It’s not a matter of either of us being ‘right’ or ‘wrong’—because either way a man chooses, he loses.

      • But the attitude “the earthly hell of a modern relationship” seems to me to be a fundamental part of your problem. I’m in a “modern relationship” that’s anything but hellish, and so are a huge proportion of my friends. I don’t expect relationships to be hellish when I enter into them – and if they seem to be heading that way for whatever reason, I cut my losses and move on. Which is in fact exactly what I did the day before I met my wife.

        You can blather on all you like about “either way a man chooses, he loses”, but how does this explain the millions and millions of couples who are perfectly happy together?

      • The state of denial you male feminists wallow in is astounding. “What about the millions of happily married…” yeah what about the fact that most of those end in divorce; and a high percentage of those that don’t are still not happy?

        (Oh, that’s right—those things don’t really happen)

        “You can just man up and move on!”

        (Sure, like men have unlimited options…)

        What a crock of self-deluded bullshit. It may suck be INCEL or MGTOW but it’s better than a fantasy-world.

  8. Yes, that’s me.

    That’s how rape was viewed for thousands of years in human history. It was always considered a serious crime. Once that feminists started accessing the institutions it became a petty, laughable crime since everything is rape now.

  9. BTW, when I said “I respect your honesty”, I meant GGG. Eric, I’ll respond to your drivel later. Just got home and it’s too late tonight for arguing.

  10. Think a bit more…

    What makes someone scum? Hurting others very much in really nasty ways probably?
    Now, this woman did not know you. Didn’t know any of your view as you say, and didn’t even know you had been incel unless you mentioned it. Unless you made some sort of huge impression, to her you were an average stranger guy.
    Does the average guy ,who hasn’t lived your life, get hurt by being stood up and blocked without explanation? Compared to someone like you, a TON less. To illustrate, what to you is this akimbocomics.com/?p=573, to them is a paper cut.
    Now, from her perspective, you are one of them. An average guy she stood up. Did she hurt you in a huge nasty way from her perspective? No.
    Goes to show that it is important to remember everyone doesn’t operate from your perspective and to judge people based on their intentions as well as actions.

    One more thing to consider, other people can suffer from crippling psychological problems from which you don’t suffer. Social phobia, for one, can make it really hard to reject people – especially someone who, like you, has shown extreme interest in the planned meeting. It’s possible what you assumed was blowing you off without giving a fuck was actually a flight response after the stress and fear of meeting a very engaging stranger and things going wrong got too much.

    Also good to remember the fact that you would have acted like anyone in whose place you could have been born. Even if you have a soul that would have made you who you are no matter what kind of life you had been born into, even then, you did not create or choose your self/soul. Neither did anyone else.

    • “Think a bit more…

      What makes someone scum? Hurting others very much in really nasty ways probably?
      Now, this woman did not know you. Didn’t know any of your view as you say, and didn’t even know you had been incel unless you mentioned it. Unless you made some sort of huge impression, to her you were an average stranger guy.
      Does the average guy ,who hasn’t lived your life, get hurt by being stood up and blocked without explanation? Compared to someone like you, a TON less. To illustrate, what to you is this akimbocomics.com/?p=573, to them is a paper cut.
      Now, from her perspective, you are one of them. An average guy she stood up. Did she hurt you in a huge nasty way from her perspective? No.
      Goes to show that it is important to remember everyone doesn’t operate from your perspective and to judge people based on their intentions as well as actions.”

      You’re right about all this. However, it does not excuse her in my mind. Just because most people are manure like her doesn’t mean I am able to justify her treating me like manure.

      “One more thing to consider, other people can suffer from crippling psychological problems from which you don’t suffer. Social phobia, for one, can make it really hard to reject people – especially someone who, like you, has shown extreme interest in the planned meeting. It’s possible what you assumed was blowing you off without giving a fuck was actually a flight response after the stress and fear of meeting a very engaging stranger and things going wrong got too much.”

      I know what extreme fear of seeing somebody irl does. It virtually destroyed my life. However, I had that fear before I had any experiences while this girl has had boyfriends before. There’s no justification for her fear. She’s just spoiled and dumb.

      “Also good to remember the fact that you would have acted like anyone in whose place you could have been born. Even if you have a soul that would have made you who you are no matter what kind of life you had been born into, even then, you did not create or choose your self/soul. Neither did anyone else.”

      That’s an interesting though but ultimately irrelevant. Yeah, Hitler could have been born Russian. So what?

  11. Were you raised by your mom ? Mine was always so nice to me…I think it set me up for disaster. which…she’s the only family I have left

    seems maybe we were trained to be nice to women…chivalry if you will….I spent years incel…horrible existence……best years of my life…all drugged up on… garbage like zyprexa. Criminal what was done to me….wish I had the net back then. At least you do…and that’s why I love transgrnderism…looking for another person to make you complete may be a fail….got a dog as a gift and married it….sad isn’t it? Not much love in this world. She got run over in front of me and died….gender doctors were so obsessed with driving me to suicide…so I ostensibly don’t don’t do it later and sue them….I’ve thought of sueing them anyways….just for the lolz….now I got a boyfriend…but first one. I’m saying find one special person…that’s what you need….why not the fb?

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