You’re a virgin and no girl would ever be with you !
In fact, since I’ve started dating in 2006 I’ve had a girl like me in 2007, two relationships, one in 2009-2010 and one in 2012, as well as sex with 3 girls. The total number of girls I’ve kissed in life is over 15 now. Aaaaaand… I currently have a fuck buddy.
You only want sex!
Actually, I would like a serious relationship and am constantly looking for it. The only reason I am just fuck buddies with this girl is because I can’t force myself to really like her. I am in no way content just because I’m getting sex now, just a little bit more relaxed.
You hate women and treat them badly !
I don’t hate women at all and treat all of them with respect. My motto is – you want respect, you give respect.
I have female friends and they all think I’m a great guy.In over 20 dates I’ve had there were only two cases where me and the woman had a bad opinion on each other – one early date in 2006 when I met a very shallow, talkative girl who I couldn’t relate to at all and who couldn’t stop talking about stuff I didn’t care about and one in 2013, when I had no chemistry with a girl and she reacted negatively to me telling her life story (to which she agreed to). In every other case the woman had a very good opinion on me. The only reason they wouldn’t be with me was the lack of chemistry.
You are an asshole and treat people badly!
This is absolutely wrong. Everybody who knows me in real life will tell you I’m an extremely polite guy – but a polite guy who doesn’t take any shit from anybody. Anybody who thinks I’m rude to all the commentators that should realize that I get so many rude messages that I actually thank those who are civil. Some of my commentators are feminists who are completely delusional and oppose normal male behavior like persuading a girl or having sex without willing to commit, while having no problem with such female behavior. I am rude to them because I know they despise me.
On the other hand , I do hate feminism and have no illusions about it – it’s no longer about equality of women, which has been achieved, it’s simply a postmodernist denial of human nature and establishment of the totalitarian feminist police state. I am more and more convinced that feminism resembles a psychiatric disorder related to psychopathy.
Also, I don’t like patronizing, which usually comes with nauseating political correctness and thinly veiled misandry.
It doesn’t mean I’m rude to everybody – be nice to me and I’ll be nice to you.
You’re lazy and expecting the government/parents to find you a girlfriend while doing nothing on your own!
Nonsense. What about those 20 dates I mentioned? Did government and parents find those for me? Also, I talked about my various attempts here. What is true is that I don’t meet a lot of women through work, that I never had a relationship with a woman from high school/college and that I don’t cold approach. It doesn’t mean
Your parents don’t want to introduce you to girls because you attacked them, because you are crazy or a danger to others ! They’re actually doing a socially responsible thing!
Nonsense. They haven’t introduced me to any girls since I was 14, long before I had these ideas about government or attacked them. Also, I was never violent to any girl so I don’t see how I’m a danger to others. They’re actually doing the most socially irresponsible thing by not helping me – it’s their failure to help me that made me this way. DON’T CONFUSE CAUSE AND EFFECT !
You want incel to be recognized by the medical community !
Not true. Incel is merely a state, it’s cannot be a disease. Somebody being without any relationships or sex for years doesn’t mean he has a medical condition. What I do want recognized by the medical community is Love-shyness, which is see as a specific phobia of approaching people of the opposite sex, initating romantic/sexual intimacy and, in some cases, a phobia of reciprocating romantic interest and romantic/sexual acts. This is much more specific than social phobia, as some idiots call it and should be treated by various means.
You have never really tried therapy and you asked your therapist to have sex with you !
Actually, I have tried therapy many times, starting when I was 15, for depression. I had various therapists, male and female, during the years. Each time I would take my meds and be honest with my therapists, who never understood incel and could never talk about it.
I asked one therapist, who was about 35 and very good looking, to have sex with me after months of therapy and at a time when I was a virgin with no prospects of that changing in sight. I don’t know what would have happened if she accepted it but I don’t regret asking it. So she got uncomfortable: so what? It’s her job, and if she can’t deal with it, it’s her problem, not mine. Maybe she should find a different job, where everybody treats her just the way she wants every second of every day.
What were and still are the results of therapy for me? Some medication helped me a bit.
I was even committed once. What for? Depression. It only lasted for 5 days. Therapists knew better than random strangers online.
Talk therapy never achieved anything. Many therapists see themselves as defending the status quo, with the goal of putting people back into their boxes and making them acceptable to society.
Even though I am in therapy now I don’t fit into the standard boxes anymore. That’s why I am very skeptical of the advice “Get therapy” because for better or worse, I am beyond that stage in life. Mentally, I am on my own, here in my own little world.
Also, it is known that therapy is like religion to every liberal. They will never give up on the idea, just like a religious person is unlikely to give up on his religion. They’ll keep introducing the idea over and over and eventually blame you because you don’t take therapy seriousy and don’t want to really commit. The point being, therapy is great, it’s your fault is it doesn’t work.
If you were to therapy you were declared extremely mentally ill !
In fact, my only diagnoses were extreme depression and some personality disorders, mostly BPD. I don’t believe in personality disorders much but whatever.
You want your parents to get girls to be with you!
All I want my parents to do is introduce me to daughters of their co-workers or relatives who could introduce me to girls. That’s all I want. This is what they don’t do and it makes them murderers.
You attacked your parents !
One thing you have to know about me is that my incel used to make me extremely depression and unmotivated at times. When people who not only don’t understand incel but don’t want to help you for 10 years come shouting at you, calling you a loser, lazy, telling you that your incel is all your fault and that you could find a girl anytime you wanted to, if you wanted to, all while trying to grab you by the head in order to “show you there’s nothing in it” you tend to get pretty mad. Anyway, they didn’t want to press charges against me, realizing they were assholes.
You wanted to rape your mother !
Actually, all I did was beg her for sex a couple of times I was very, very frustrated and sex starved. I did not want to have sex with her any other time than those few times nor do I want to now.
You blackmailed a woman for sex !
This lie is often repeated by a couple of extremely stupid feminist women. Some have even called it rape and, sadly, I know they weren’t kidding. This is how sick feminists are, and, as Eivind Berge can tell you, this would actually be rape in countries like Norway… If I had really blackmailed her.
In fact, what happened is that this woman offered sex than changed her mind when I said that it will be weird having sex using condoms because the previous girl I had sex with was on the pill. Not that I wouldn’t have sex with her with a condom, like they claim, only that it will be kinda weird in the start. She immediately said she changed her mind. I then tried to persuade her for 3 hours (which is normal male behavior, not coercion) and when she eventually agreed to do it again she changed her mind once more. You know why? Because I asked her to write “brb” during our Facebook chats. She just said she’s not gonna do it and that I should forget about her.
What many of you don’t understand is that she wasn’t doing this to Joe Average but to a guy who was incel for 10 years and whose only sexual experience prior to that was having sex with a girl twice for like 30 seconds. I called her on the phone and cried, begging her not to treat me the way she did but she didn’t care about the stress she just put me through at all. So I called her again and insulted her, being rightfully angry. After that I put just one of her pictures on this blog, without her name, location, anything, without calling her and telling her I will remove it if, just deciding to leave it up there out of sheer rage.
It was her who called me and offered sex to remove it. It was to be just one hour of sex, with no cuddling or kissing, and I was never to call her and contact her again. Of course I had to accept it. Only a person who doesn’t understand incel or a raging feminazi would say it wasn’t right to accept it. I would be insane not accept it.
Saying I was a creep to accept is brazen hate, not just against incel men or generally lonely men, AGAINST ALL MEN AND THEIR SEXUALITY.
What these feminists, manginas and other scum don’t tell you is that our initial deal of one hour of sex with no cuddling or kissing turned into 5 hours with kissing and cuddling, that she was the one who broke the “no contact” part of the deal less than 24 hours later and that she was the one who wanted a relationship with me. That’s how “abused”, “coerced” and “blackmailed” she felt after. They will also not tell you that she admitted that her changes of mind were done just to get a kick out of torturing me but that she liked the sex when it happened. You might also read her comments here, unless you think I’ve written them myself, like Jessay thinks I did with those guys from Texas and her state
But, of course they wont tell you all this. It doesn’t suit ther agenda.
You threatened to dox a woman !
I wouldn’t call it a threat but a warning. You see, there is this woman, using a nickname Jessay, that is bent on discovering my real life information and posting them related to this blog. Not only is this illegal in most of the world, as any judge would see that by writing under a pseudonym I exercised my right of staying anonymous on the Internet but extremely assholish.
Not only that, she wants to have me locked up ! 🙂
Of course, only a complete idiot could believe she would be able to do that. Even if she knew all my information, what could she do? Call hospitals? Police? My parents? All of them won’t even communicate with her in English, institutions because they only communicate in native language unless specific need, but this need can only be recognized through offical channels, not some crazy bitch calling around from thousands of miles away and my parents can’t speak, read or conversate in English.
The only way to get any shrink to pay any attention to my blog is through a court order. In order for that to happen court, not district attorney, would have to start some kind of procedure against me and declare it necessary. In order for a criminal court (she can’t access the civil one because she wouldn’t be able to talk to any of relatives who might start the process of questioning my sanity, even if she knew who they were) to order a psychiatric evaluation I would need a procedure started against me, and the only one who can do that is a district attorney. In order for a district attorney to start any process against me the police would first have to be warned. So, in order for the shrink the read this weeks later my local police department would first have to be contacted, which she can do only if she knew my info. And they even if they would find somebody to talk to in English what would the police find on this blog that is of any interest to them? Nothing at all.This is why even somebody as insane as Jessay didn’t call the Interpol, the only people who would look into this blog right now. She knows that there is nothing for them to find.
So, what would the real goal of this woman and her friends be? What would the end game be here? Well, it’s obvious. The only thing they could do is write some kind of “warnings” against me on the Internet, hoping that people will google it. In other words, their only real goal is to defame me. To stop me from getting girlfriends, jobs, friends, everything. That is ALL they’re about.
But not even that goal is achievable and I’ll now explain why.
2 years ago somebody tried to defame me, a person I considered a friend. Luckily for me, I had another person’s name and picture as my Fb name at the time so that person, and not me, got defamed a lot. If he had seen my name just couple of weeks later I’d be fucked. I Initially didn’t care but when he started defaming other people I know I got very angry and eventually discovered who he was, over 6 months after that sicko started doing it. He got what he deserved, and so will any sociopath who thinks he has the right to fuck with me. Since then I have been hiding my online identity, using pseudonyms everywhere.
Still, I have screencapped and downloaded what I need. It’s the only way I could get revenge if somebody close to me betrays me and tells my info to these people, especially that woman . I can’t sue somebody that far away, I would if I could.
So don’t tell me I’m threatening anybody. I’m just trying to protect myself like any one of you would. I will never use it unless this woman and her friends want to harm me in real life- not phsysically, of course, but harm my real life reputation and, through that, the quality of my life (jobs, relationships etc):
Any questions, folks? Give me a chance to expand this… From now on I will just link this article to idiots who ask the same stupid questions and make same retarded lies all the time.