Two dates tomorrow… in one day

Tomorrow will be a completely unique date. Two dates in one day, separated only by an hour. Unfortunately, my first date is ugly, fat and seems to be pretty unintelligent but we’ll see . I expect more from the second one, which was arranged in an hour but it’s still very risky. I might be completely fucked up after both of these.

Anyway, I’ll try to test my behavior in such situations. Most imporantly, can I act more relaxed with the first girl knowing I will have a date with the second one just an hour later?

Damn, this will be tough, and I will hardly have the time to eat.

My way of thinking is like this – I will be relaxed with the fat girl, knowing I’ll have a date with the prettier one later. That could make the fat girl attracted to me and give me more confidence with the prettier girl.

Chemistry, I need to find it 😦

34 thoughts on “Two dates tomorrow… in one day

  1. No wonder you’re “incel” if this is the way you look at things. Why go on a date w a girl who, by your standards, is “fat and ugly”? Not only do you not deserve a girlfriend, but you actually deserve to be single and miserable for the rest of your life. Thank god you don’t live in the US.

      • Please tell me, bc I’m sure it’ll definitely help people be more understanding and sympathetic to your “plight.”

      • A. Define “normal,” BC I’m more than positive you don’t fall in that category
        B. I’d love it if you answered my question – why bother going on dates with women who obviously don’t meet your standards? Is it just so that you have something to be miserable about? Is it to make yourself feel better by rejecting someone rather than once again be the one who’s being rejected? I really just don’t get why you’d waste your time.

        PS I’m not really sure you should even be having standards and you’d probably do better to just take what you can get at this point.

    • He’s dating the “fat ugly one” as practice for how to act with a female-type person. She’s dry run for the other one. He doesn’t give damn about her feelings; she’s there for him to practice on, not be a real person. It’s an abuser-thing. Abusive types have trouble accepting anyone other than themselves as real people deserving of consideration or respect.

      The whole thing with his parents he sees as self-defense (again, he can only see himself, not others) because they’re “murdering” him. He thinks that they should have given him a girlfriend (see previous posts), or that the government should reinvent itself for his benefit.

      Focus always on GGF, not others. And he really cannot see that he alone is responsible for his situation. He just cannot accept it.

      • Ahahahaahahahahahaahhaahahah…. I don’t have much time for this blog but today I had to deny approval to some posts, as this is not some hater fest, and reply to this gem from one and only dar, whose posts always put a smile on my face 🙂
        Utterly delusional, full of lies and spewing politically correct nonsense as always, you chose to ignore the the following sentences “Unfortunately, my first date is ugly, fat and seems to be pretty unintelligent but we’ll see . I expect more from the second one, which was arranged in an hour but it’s still very risky. I might be completely fucked up after both of these.”

        Why would you do that? My guess is because it’s obvious I was keeping both options open and just speculated about “using” one of them later. “Using” as in going on a single date with a person who already gets a lot of male attention, fat or not. Heck, you don’t even know what happened in the end. Maybe I had better chemistry with her, chemistry which made me disregard the fact that she’s fat and kinda ugly?

        Anyway, you call that abusive thinking. I wonder how would you call what women did to me in the past. What do you think about a woman who knew I was clearly in love with her and arranged four meetings with me she would cancel half an hour before? And, yes, we have met before and had history together, and yes, I was in love with her and, yes, she knew it.

        Or how would you call a woman who left me after 8 months of a sexless relationship but added she wanted to sleep with me just to change her mind tomorrow?

        Or a woman who promised that we will have sex until she goes home 2 months before she had to go and later after she comes back just to have sex with me twice, call me a loser and lousy lay, before suggesting that I kill myself?

        Or a woman who suggested we have sex to change her mind over the fact that I said that it will be weird with condoms (not that I won’t use them, I obviously wasn’t going to blow this chance!), changed her mind back to wanting sex and then changed her mind again because I asked her to write “brb” before she would leave for 15 minutes or more? A woman who later admitted she did because she got a kick out of torturing me.

        These angels were so concerned about my feelings, weren’t they? But, no, that wasn’t abusive, scenario of going out with a fat chick and expecting more from a prettier, of which you don’t even know the ending is. Why, of course it wasn’t abusive, it was perpetrated by women ! How could women perpertrate abuse or think like abusers? Especially against a guy who was so “needy”, “boring” and “desperate” that he deserved every bit of it.

        Despite all that, I never once called any of these acts abuse or the women abusers. Neither will you, but for entirely different reasons. Your abuse industry has only one perpetrator- men.

        You are pathetic. A joke.

        “The whole thing with his parents he sees as self-defense (again, he can only see himself, not others) because they’re “murdering” him. He thinks that they should have given him a girlfriend (see previous posts), or that the government should reinvent itself for his benefit.”

        I can see others and see no reason why my parents couldn’t help me. I don’t think that the government should reinvent itself, just add another program, which wouldn’t benefit just me but many incels.
        I also see the consequences of their failure to do anything for me and other incels – I see it in my daily life, I see it in incel communities. They are misery, depression, pain and death.

        “Focus always on GGF, not others. And he really cannot see that he alone is responsible for his situation. He just cannot accept it.”

        Of course I can’t be the only one responsible for my situation. I didn’t live under a rock. Rarely is somebody completely, one hundred percent responsible for any situation he is in. I am mostly to blame but kids who bullied me, teachers, media, parents, friends, girls I’ve interacted… all of them played a certain role. It doesn’t mean I am not the first one to blame – in fact, I’ve talked about my mistakes a lot of times here, check the post on teenage girls again – it lists grievous mistakes for which neither bullying nor which shyness are good enough excuse. Even if I was getting laid every day I wouldn’t be the only one who played a role in making that happen – my good circumstances would play a role too. Even if I was 100 percent responsible for where I am now – so what? Does that mean I am only one who can change my situation? Does that mean I shouldn’t get help because I am? Did everybody on welfare make the best decisions in life? Should we take that away because they screwed up in life by making wrong choices?

        With my current situation being as it is, I see that I can’t convince anybody else they’re responsible so I’m trying myself. At least I have good looks, height and verbal intelligence, and that goes in my favor. Many incels don’t have that at all, were not responsible for being born raised that way but you still want them to take all responsibility for changing their current situation? It’s like telling a sick man that he alone is responsible for being healthy.

  2. Somebody on Man Boobz posted this. I repost it without knowing who they are but who cares, they didn’t draw it anyway. This is GGF if he ever gets laid:
    http://www.oglaf.com/afterglower/1/

    Had to keep deleting posts? Not a hate fest? Isn’t there anyone who recognizes you for the Special Snowflake that you are and supports you, even Teh Lurkerz in Emailz?

    Oh, and I am not the one and only Dar. It’s a family name and I’ve got a nephew and a cousin with the same name. Look it up. Very common name. Kinda like Johann.

    It’s a shame you got yourself banned from Man Boobz. From what I read they tend to be rather nice and most of them are women. You could have gotten some good advice if you hadn’t been requiring them to recognize you as The Specialist Little Snowflake of Them All.

    But then again, it is always about you, isn’t it.

    How’s the sex with your mother going?

    • You haven’t addressed a single point I made in my reply to your previous post. Nothing at all. Not a word about the fact that I treated the fat girl as a viable option, that I was treated much worse than I have ever treated any woman by at least four women, about the consequences of incel or my explanation of who’s responsible for my current condition and getting out of it. Instead you posted an unfunny comic, made a personal attack against me, rambled something about your family name and mentioned Manboobz (where I got banned because Lietelle is fascist, everybody with any brains and knowledge of the story realizes that), which has nothing to do with was either you or me were saying in previous comments, just like sex with my mother had nothing to do with your or mine previous posts.
      This is why have decided to put you on moderation.
      To write a post like these after I give you a serious and detailed answer to bullshit accusations you made against me is plain trolling or extreme rudeness and hate. Your comments will be allowed when you actually start replying to points I make. And if I ever bother replying to your accusations seriously and in a long post again and you respond with a completely unrelated set of nonsense you will be gone. You have made a fool of me once.

      And I got laid twice tonight with a very willing girl, will repeat next week.

      Also, I allow some very bad things in the comments here. Things I had to deny approval of were beyond bad, they were utterly demented.

  3. This is why you’re single. This is why. You have no respect for women, so how can you think that one would respect you and want to fuck you?

  4. Have you ever read or listened to any materials from companies like Lovesystems or RealSocialDynamics?

    Now I’m about to get flamed because a lot of people consider these companies to be misogynists, but that is really not the case. The philosophy is about teaching people who are nervous in romantic encounters how to be themselves and how to be confident that their inner person is something the opposite gender would be attracted to.

    Those guys will kick your ass in a really healthy way – I mean in the way that a personal fitness trainer kicks your ass when you sign up for training. They’ll be very blunt, very honest, give you the straight truth. And most importantly, what they teach is SO freaking helpful. It’ll make you more comfortable in your own skin around all women. And if you do have some misogynistic tendencies in your personality – often programs like this wipe those out completely.

    How? Well like any bigotry, misogyny is bred from ignorance. It’s from not taking time to get to know individual women and observing that they have depth, personality, desires, strengths, and weaknesses just like any other human. When you’re more comfortable around women, you start to observe that. You start viewing them as real, ordinary people, just like you and me, and that takes you up ANOTHER level in terms of your comfort around them.

    Sorry, that was my little rant on why this community is less misogynistic than everybody seems to think. Point is, you should check out this very educational stuff. Start off with the free youtube videos by a guy named Owen Cook – he’s a genius. The ONLY thing you have to bring to the table is a willingness self-improve, and with that a willingness to admit your own faults and work on them.

        • Yes, but only after they called me a loser and a nobody who’s not depressed but lazy and that I could get girls anytime if I wanted to, all while shouting terribly, and trying to forcefully grab me by the head. You know they haven’t done anything to help me in 10 years, which makes them criminals, right?

      • “Yes, but only after they called me a loser and a nobody who’s not depressed but lazy and that I could get girls anytime if I wanted to, all while shouting terribly, and trying to forcefully grab me by the head. You know they haven’t done anything to help me in 10 years, which makes them criminals, right?”

        The ‘reply’ button is missing from that, so I hope it’s ok that I’m replying here.
        If they grabbed you by the head, that’s assault and you’re totally in the right to defend yourself as necessary. I’m not sure that really required “beating the shit out of them”, but who knows, I wasn’t there so I can’t speak to that.

        I do not know that their refusal to help you constitutes criminal behavior. What crime would you have them charged with?

      • I also want to say that I know how frustrating it can be when close ones minimize depression. That shit’s a real disease, I hope you find a peaceful, nonviolent way to manage it.

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