Program for treating involuntary celibacy
Many incel men can’t even get a date on dating sites and are constantly rejected if they cold approach or express interest in women they meet through their social circle.
Government should offer women money to go on blind dates. These women would freely apply for such program, as would incel men. Every woman would have a limit of 30 dates. If she doesn’t find a suitable partner during those 30 days she will be fired to prevent scammers – however, she would be paid the full sum, as would a woman who finds a partner during one of these 30 dates.
Some people objected to this idea on these grounds – they said it’s immoral because it uses poor women. I find this argument disgusting. 1. Wouldn’t single poor women like to get more money they get on welfare and try to meet a man they desire than be unemployed? Also, why should only unemployed/poor women apply? Anybody can apply.
2. Liberals keep saying how there are incel women. So why wouldn’t some of these incel women apply? They do exist, don’t they?
3. Dating sites- it’s true that dating sites give men a chance to get a date. What’s not mentioned is the fact that these sites contain a disproportionally high amount of males and that it is hard to get a date there. Using this program those who apply are guaranteed dates.
There was an even nastier argument – that all incel men are creeps so no woman should be going on dates with them. This is so disgusting and offensive to members of this site that it doesn’t deserve a comment.
Using this program, many involuntary celibate men would get their first date or improve their chances of finding a partner.
Program for treating love-shyness
Love-shyness is a phobia of approaching women with romantic intention or asserting yourself romantically/sexually on a date, combined, in some cases, with a phobia reciprocating romantic interest. It must not be confused with mere social phobia. Psychologist Brian G. Gilmartin wrote a book on it called Shyness and Love: Causes, Consequences, and Treatments in 1987. The fact that Dr. Gilmartin occasionally supports his claims with astrology and other pseudo-sciences cannot be used to discredit the claims which are based on real evidence; remember that Isaac Newton gave us alchemical and religious texts along with the calculus and gravitational theory.
Due to their phobia, love-shy males can’t be treated as pure incel males. In order for them to be cured their erotophobia must be defeated. To achieve this goal women, all of whom would freely apply and be paid for it, would teach these men how to cuddle and kiss – which, to most of them, would be their first experience of these things. In the end, once their phobia has receded, there would be an option of these women sleeping with them, but only if both parties agree. If any of these males refuse to have their first time that way their wishes would be respected, same if any of the women refuse to have sex with a male.
This program would eliminate love-shyness. After it is completed formerly love-shy participants could join a program for incels or try meeting women on their own.
If these programs worked same programs might be opened for homosexual men and women.